Sunday, September 21, 2025

New Burial Policy

Although Bankhead Cemetery has operated for many years without formal policies and procedures, the time has come to put them in place. We recognize that change can be difficult, but these changes are necessary to preserve the cemetery and ensure fairness, consistency, and respect for all families.

The following is the new Burial Policy:


Purpose

To provide for the Christian burial of human bodies at the Bankhead Cemetery, Mentone, Alabama, in an aesthetic and dignified manner, to perpetually maintain the cemetery and chapel provided at that place for that purpose and to engage in only such business as may be necessarily incident to such purpose, provided that no part of the net earnings therefrom shall inure to the benefit of any private individual.  

To arrange for and maintain an annual memorial service at the Bankhead Cemetery, Mentone, Alabama.

To establish and maintain a perpetual nonprofit savings fund to provide funds for the perpetual maintenance and care of the Bankhead Cemetery, Mentone, Alabama.

To provide for the burial of paupers in the Mentone community, subject to regulations set forth in the Bylaws.

To exercise such other general powers set forth in the provisions of Alabama law governing nonprofit corporations.


Scope

To provide for the Christian burial of human bodies at the Bankhead Cemetery, Mentone, Alabama, in an aesthetic and dignified manner, to perpetually maintain the cemetery and chapel provided at that place and for that purpose.


Section 1:  Definitions

Board of Directors (BOD) – The governing board consisting of a President, Vice President, Secretary, Treasure, and three (3) Trustees to conduct the business and affairs of the Association.

Trustee’s - Individuals initially appointed by the BOD to ensure the maintenance and operation of cemetery is maintained in good material condition.   Trustees serve until such time as their successors are duly qualified and appointed.

Certificate of Reserved Space – Documentation which identifies/verifies a specific burial plot to a person/individual. 


Section 2:  Requirements

Eligibility       

Any person age 18 years or older, either residing within a fifteen-mile radius of the cemetery, or who reside elsewhere and having a relative buried in the cemetery is eligible for burial within the cemetery.

Reservations

Individuals who meet the eligibility requirements shall make application/request to the designated board member/trustee for reserving burial plot within the cemetery utilizing Attachment 1 – “Bankhead Cemetery Burial Plot Reservation Form.  Individual/person reserving a specific burial plot shall be knowledgeable of the family name and location within the cemetery.  If a plot(s) cannot be provided for in location requested, the BOD shall make recommendation and assignment for reservation of plot(s) in alternate location.

Pre-need reservations are encouraged.  Donations for maintenance and upkeep will be accepted at this time.

Plot assignments are made based on availability and layout. 

The cemetery reserves the right to limit the number of plots at four (4) per family.

All cemetery plots or burial spaces previously obtained and/or reserved are “grandfathered” and shall not be required to comply with this policy.    

The cemetery trustees shall be contacted by attending funeral home or immediate family member notifying and/or applying for a reserved space to the Cemetery Association of the need to open a grave within the cemetery.


Duties of Trustees

The trustees are authorized by BOD to ensure the maintenance and operation of cemetery is maintained in good material condition.  A quarterly report shall be submitted to BOD indicating burials, requests for burial plots, and any “required” maintenance items within the cemetery.  This report is for “information only” and does not require a meeting of the full BOD for approval.  All maintenance and repairs of cemetery and Chapel building shall be approved by BOD. 

The designated trustee(s) shall maintain a registry of all burials which shall include as a minimum:  

Full name of person buried.

Date of burial.

Vault type/Material.

Location of grave on plat which was previously approved by Bankhead Cemetery through the application process.

Attending funeral home.

Grave digger name or company approved by BOD bid selection process.


Section 3: Interments

All state and local health laws shall be complied with prior to any interment in the cemetery.

All interments shall be inside of containers (casket) of pine wood construction or equal.  These containers (casket) shall be placed underground at a suggested minimum depth of 3.5 feet to 4 feet deep, except where rock is encountered.  Exceptions to minimum depth requirements shall be provided for cremation boxes.

Vault construction shall be of fiberglass, steel, or concrete.


Section 4:  Monuments/Burial Sites/Benches

Prior to installation for all monuments, the funeral home and/or monument company shall notify designated trustee for identification of correct location.

All monuments shall be of solid material base such as natural stone, marble, or granite. 

 All monuments or memorials of four (4) feet in height or less shall have a concrete foundation, a minimum of 4 inches thick.

All monuments or memorials greater than four (4) feet in height and less than six (6) feet in height shall have a concrete foundation a minimum of six (6) inches thick. 

All monuments and memorials exceeding six (6) feet shall be approved by the trustee.  The BOD reserves the right to consult engineering services for foundation design.

Note: concrete foundations are intended to be foundational base material for the monument which includes the natural stone, granite or marble base and the vertical portion of monument.

All bronze monuments shall be placed on a granite base.

All foot markers and corner markers shall be installed such that the top of marker is level with surrounding ground.

Upon Burial Policy Implementation on its effective date of May 25, 2025:

Existing grave plot enhancements are “grandfathered” and do not require removal.

Benches are not permitted.

New improvements such as walls, fences, walks, fixtures or enclosures of grave sites shall not be permitted.  Additionally, the BOD shall have the right to remove, alter or change these old improvements or alternations at the expense of the lot or grave space owner.

No gravels, rocks stones, bricks, wire, wire stands, glass, ceramics figurines or other materials deemed hazardous to personnel and equipment performing grave maintenance shall be allowed on grave sites.


Section 5: Floral Arrangements/Trees/Shrubs

Trees, rose bushes, shrubs, and small plants shall not be permitted.

The Trustees shall have the authority to remove all floral designs, flowers, weeds trees, shrubs, plants of any kind from the cemetery when in the judgement of trustees, they have become unsightly, dangerous, detrimental or diseased. 

 All flowers shall be removed from the cemetery beginning on April 1 of each year in preparation for mowing to begin.  Additionally, the Trustees will begin removal any flowers, etc. on May 1 of each year that are determined to be outside of the appropriate area/grave site.  e.g. flower arrangements lying on ground and not specific to a grave site.

New Burials:  All flowers shall be removed after thirty (30) days except for monument vases and saddle arrangements placed on monument stone.

Section 6:  Responsibility for Damage

The BOD disclaims all responsibility for loss or damage from causes beyond its reasonable control, damage caused by the elements, an act of God, common enemies, thieves, vandals, malicious mischief makers, explosions, unavoidable accidents of any kind, whether the damage is direct or collateral.

Section 7:  Attachments

Attachment 1 – Bankhead Cemetery Burial Plot Reservation Form

Section 8:  Documentation

Documents created by implementation of this procedure shall be recorded in electronic format and provided to BOD President to be maintained in Bankhead Cemetery Electronic Files.

Section 9:  Amendments

This policy may be updated as needed by the cemetery Board of Directors.  All changes will be communicated to the public and posted at the cemetery bulletin board, FaceBook, and the cemetery Blog online.

Sunday, August 17, 2025

Synergy

 Synergy in therapy refers to the collaborative dynamic between the therapist and client that fosters growth and healing beyond what either party could achieve alone. Here are some examples:

1. Goal-setting: Therapist and client work together to identify and prioritize goals, combining the therapist's expertise with the client's insights and motivations. 2. Exploring perspectives: The therapist's objective viewpoint and the client's personal experience merge to gain a deeper understanding of the client's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. 3. Skill-building: The therapist teaches coping skills and strategies, while the client applies and adapts them to their unique situation, leading to increased self-efficacy. 4. Emotional support: The therapist provides a safe and empathetic environment, and the client feels comfortable sharing their emotions, leading to increased trust and vulnerability. 5. Creative problem-solving: Therapist and client collaborate to identify and challenge negative thought patterns, behaviors, or relationships, leading to innovative solutions. Some specific therapeutic approaches that emphasize synergy include: 1. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): Therapist and client work together to identify and challenge distorted thought patterns. 2. Motivational interviewing: The therapist helps the client explore and resolve ambivalence, promoting intrinsic motivation for change. 3. Humanistic therapy: The therapist emphasizes empathy and genuineness, empowering the client to take an active role in their growth and self-actualization. These examples illustrate how synergy in therapy can lead to more effective and meaningful outcomes for clients.

Sunday, May 4, 2025

Decoration Day 2025


Decoration Day is always the fourth Sunday in May.  Sometimes that is on Memorial Day weekend, and some years it is not.

This year that works out to be May 25, 2025.

Everyone is welcome to clean graves and place new flowers anytime leading up to Decoration Day.

Please make plans to attend the Memorial Service at 10:30 AM, and the Business Meeting at 11:30 AM.

Membership in the Bankhead Cemetery Association is open to all interested persons over eighteen years of age who reside within a radius of fifteen miles from the Bankhead Cemetery or who reside elsewhere but have relatives buried in the cemetery.  Become a member and you will be eligible to vote and hold office in the association.  Sign up to be a member at Decoration Day.  See Secretary Fred Johnson.

Bring your family, and bring lunch.

Garbage Dumpster

 A garbage dumpster will be at the Cemetery from May 16 to May 26 for disposal of old flowers and decorations.

Verify Your Reserved Burial Plot

 If you or a family member think that you have reserved burial plots at Bankhead Cemetery, please verify that with Trustee Hershell Pruitt (256) 516-2193. We need to make certain that you are listed on the plot plan. If you are not on the plot plan drawing, you do not have a reserved plot.

Appreciation

 Bankhead Cemetery Volunteer Appreciation

We would like to extend our deepest appreciation to Mr. Sam Whatley for his many faithful years of service maintaining the grounds at Bankhead Cemetery. His dedication to cutting the grass, weed eating, and keeping the cemetery clean and beautiful has made a lasting impact on our community and the families who visit.
We are also incredibly thankful for the many volunteers who have quietly and consistently given their time and energy to help preserve the dignity and peacefulness of the cemetery. Your service may often go unseen, but it is never unappreciated.
Because of your hard work, Bankhead Cemetery continues to be a place of honor, remembrance, and respect for all who rest there.
Thank you, Mr. Whatley, and thank you to every volunteer who has helped care for this sacred ground. Your generosity and commitment reflect the very best of our community spirit.
— The Bankhead Cemetery Board of Directors

Donations

 Contributions can be made at any time to assist with the upkeep of the Cemetery. Make your check payable to, and mail to: Bankhead Cemetery, P.O. Box 193, Mentone, AL 35984.

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

President Ronnie Lee Jones


 It is with deep respect and heartfelt gratitude that we honor the life and legacy of Mr. Ronnie Lee Jones, who served with unwavering dedication as the President of the Bankhead Cemetery Association. His passing leaves a profound void in our community, and his contributions will not soon be forgotten. He was preceded in death by his father, Edward Daniel Jones, who was a Trustee of the Bankhead Cemetery Association.

As a leader, Ronnie demonstrated an extraordinary commitment to preserving the history and dignity of the Bankhead Cemetery. He saw beyond the simple preservation of a resting place; to him, it was a sacred duty to ensure that the memories of those who came before us were respected and cherished. Under his leadership, the Association flourished — transforming the cemetery into not just a final resting place, but a living tribute to the generations that shaped our community.
Mr. Jones had a unique ability to balance the practical with the reverent. Whether overseeing maintenance, organizing community events, or advocating for the preservation of the cemetery’s historical records, he gave of his time, energy, and heart without hesitation. His passion was contagious, inspiring others to volunteer, donate, and lend their support. He brought people together in ways that transcended the work at hand, fostering a shared sense of purpose that united all who were fortunate enough to work alongside him.
More than just a leader, Ronnie was a source of quiet strength and wisdom. He listened when others spoke, valued every perspective, and approached challenges with a level-headed calm that helped guide the Association through even the most difficult times. His integrity, humility, and kindness were the foundation of his leadership, and these qualities will continue to inspire all who carry forward his work.
Though he is no longer with us, his impact will endure. His vision for the Bankhead Cemetery Association will live on in the well-maintained grounds, the historical records preserved for future generations, and the vibrant community that continues to support this vital institution. He leaves behind a legacy of service, dedication, and love for his community — a legacy that will never be forgotten.
We extend our deepest condolences to his family, friends, and all those who had the privilege of knowing him. As we mourn his loss, we also celebrate his life and the invaluable contributions he made. Rest in peace, my friend. Your work has touched many lives, and your spirit will forever be a part of the Bankhead Cemetery, a place that will always stand as a testament to your dedication.

Don Brock

Friday, April 28, 2023

2023 Annual Decoration Day

The 2023 Annual Bankhead Cemetery Decoration Day will be May 28, 2023, starting at 10:30 AM.  

This year's special guest speaker will be Pastor Dennis Chambers.

Invite your family and bring lunch. Everyone is invited!

- 10:30 AM - Morning Service (singing and memorial address)
- 11:30 AM - Bankhead Association Annual Business Meeting
- 12:00 Noon - Lunch (Bring "Dinner on the Grounds") (Some outdoor picnic tables provided.)

(There will be no afternoon service.)

Guest Speaker: Pastor Dennis Chambers


 The 2023 Decoration Day Service guest speaker will be Pastor Dennis Chambers.  You will not want to miss this service!

Monday, April 18, 2022

2022 Annual Decoration Day

The 2022 Annual Bankhead Cemetery Decoration Day will be May 22, 2022, starting at 10:30 AM.

This year's special guest speaker will be Rev. Philip Bain.

The Wright, Chambers, and Bain families will be providing special singing.

Invite your family and bring lunch. Everyone is invited.

- 10:30 AM - Morning Service (singing and memorial address)
- 11:30 AM - Bankhead Association Annual Business Meeting
- 12:00 Noon - Lunch (Bring "Dinner on the Grounds") (Some outdoor picnic tables provided.)
(There will be no afternoon service.)

Thursday, May 20, 2021

2021 Program

 Program Chairman Hershell Pruitt has announced that this year's singing group will be Appointed.  The speaker will be Bruce Bonfluer.

Wednesday, May 5, 2021

2021 Decoration Day

Fourth Sunday in May: May 23, 2021.

Service begins at 10:30 AM (CDST).
Bring lunch.
(No afternoon session.)

10:30 AM - Morning Service (singing and memorial address)
11:30 AM - Bankhead Association Annual Business Meeting
12:00 Noon - Lunch (Bring "Dinner on the Grounds") (Some outdoor picnic tables provided.)
(There will be no afternoon service.)

Monday, April 15, 2019

2019 Decoration Day

The annual Decoration Day service will be Sunday, May 26, 2019, at the cemetery chapel, at 10:30 AM.  Bring lunch.  There will be no afternoon service.

Special guest singers this year will be Point of Honor.

https://www.facebook.com/pointofhonorministries/

http://pointofhonorministries.org/

Sunday, May 20, 2018

2018 Decoration Day Service

The 2018 Annual Decoration Service will feature singing by the Wright Family.  Our special guest speaker will be The Rev. Dennis Chambers.  The public is invited to enjoy this special service and renew acquaintances!

Tuesday, May 8, 2018

Decoration Day 2018

Please join us for Decoration Day at Bankhead, Sunday, May 27, 2018.  The service begins at 10:30 AM.  The public in invited.

Monday, March 13, 2017

Decoration Day 2017

Announcing Decoration Day, Sunday, May 28, 2017, 10:30 AM to Noon with lunch following ("dinner on the grounds"). There will no no afternoon session this year. Please help us pass the word.

Sunday, May 22, 2016

Honoring ...

Today we presented a rose and memorial to each family who lost a loved one who was buried at Bankhead Cemetery since last year's memorial service:

  • Catherine Bailey
  • Ovie Blalock
  • Margie Coots
  • Mary Ann Jones
  • Sally McPherson
  • Hal Phillips
  • Bobbie Smith
  • Charlotte Smith
  • Donnie Smith
  • David Wright

Sunday, April 3, 2016

Decoration Day 2016

The Annual Bankhead Cemetery Decoration Day celebration will be May 22, 2016. Before Sunday, volunteers will clean up the cemetery, and many families will decorate graves the day before and the morning of the celebration.

The memorial service will begin inside the Chapel at 11:00 AM CST. The guest speaker of the morning will be The Rev. Dr. Don G. Brock.

Everyone is invited to bring a picnic lunch. Tables are provided. This is a great time of catching up with friends and family.

Lunch will be followed by a Business Meeting of the Bankhead Cemetery Association at 1:30 PM in the Chapel. The short business meeting and election of officers will be followed by an afternoon of singing by local singers and special guests Point of Honor.

It is a good and honorable thing to remember and memorialize family members who have gone on before us. Be a part of this great tradition.

Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Decoration Day 2015

What we believe is the 75th annual Bankhead Cemetery Decoration Day celebration will be May 24, 2015. Many families will decorate graves the day before and morning of the celebration.

The service will begin inside the Chapel at 11:00 AM CST. It will begin with a presentation concerning the historic American Indian Trail Tree that stands in front of the Chapel. The guest speaker of the morning will be Rev. Dennis Chambers.

Everyone is invited to bring a picnic for Noon. Tables are provided. This is a great time of catching up with friends and family.

Lunch will be followed by a Business Meeting of the Bankhead Cemetery Association at 1:30 PM in the Chapel. The short business meeting and election of officers will be followed by an afternoon of singing by local singers and The Sharps from Fort Payne, AL.

It is a good and honorable thing to remember and memorialize family members who have gone on before us. Be a part of this great tradition.